Nice Guys Finish Last
Hey, let’s just get this out of the way—there’s no nobility in being “the nice guy” in Hollywood. None. Getting passed over so someone with half your talent can land the role you were born to play? That’s not character, that’s a tragedy. Sure, people will pat you on the back…
We’ve all been told to “forgive and forget.” Nice in theory, but let’s be real—that’s way easier said than done. I’d argue for a slight twist: forgive, but never forget.
Not for revenge. Not to plot some long game where you show up years later with a dramatic speech and settle the score. No, I mean…
“Get a life. Grow up. Be responsible.”
Yeah, we’ve all heard it. And maybe you did. You got the job, the mortgage, the family, the responsibilities—the full package. But here’s the kicker: you’re still creative. That itch doesn’t go away just because you’re sitting in traffic on the way to your cubicle or packing lunches at…
Everyone in the entertainment industry eventually asks themselves: When should I quit? The truth is, there’s no right time to give up—and if you keep grinding, learning, and evolving, your moment will come. Here’s why the answer is: never.
Everyone in the entertainment industry eventually asks themselves: When should I quit? The truth is, there’s no right time to give up—and if you keep grinding, learning, and evolving, your moment will come. Here’s why the answer is: never.
Everyone in the entertainment industry eventually asks themselves: When should I quit? The truth is, there’s no right time to give up—and if you keep grinding, learning, and evolving, your moment will come. Here’s why the answer is: never.
The fear and anxiety of an audition, a pitch session, or that one meeting that could change everything — they can be paralyzing.
What happens when you finally get the chance you’ve been dreaming of? On paper, it’s simple: do it. Everyone will tell you that. But here’s the truth — very few people actually go…

Most of us have heard the metaphor of the “crabs in the bucket.”
It goes like this: if you place a single crab in a bucket, it can crawl out. But if you place multiple crabs in the same bucket, none will escape — because every time one tries to climb out, the others pull it…
You did it. You got the call.
An agent—an actual, real-life talent agent—is reaching out to you. And it’s not a prank or a wrong number. They want to sign you. Suddenly, everything feels possible. The champagne (from a paper cup) tastes like success. The red carpet rolls out in your imagination. You’re halfway to your…
There’s more than one way to skin a cat.
(For the record: I’ve never actually skinned a cat—and I don’t plan to—but you get the idea.)
The same goes for writing stories. Screenplays. Novels. Dialogue scenes that snap or monologues that haunt. There's no single formula, no one “correct” path. But if you hang around this industry…

Let me start with a disclaimer: I’m not a psychologist or some motivational guru. In fact, I’ve never been paid for anything in the nonfiction world. But I have been face to face with the beast we call writer’s block.
Whether it's truly a "block" or just the pressure of a looming option, a contract, or…
